How early in life does temperament appear?
Maternity room nurses say they can identify the "loud, intense
squalkers" from the first day. But not all elements of temperament
show up at once.
For example, "persistence" is difficult to see until a child
begins to develop skills (rolling over, sitting up, crawling,
etc.). Only then are parents likely to notice how diligently the
child practices each skill.
Children have to teach their temperament to their parents.
So it takes time for parents to learn their child's temperament.
The image emerges slowly over time, like a photographic negative in
the developer tray. At birth, the image can be clouded by
prematurity, birth hormones, the after-effects of a difficult
birth, unfinished neurological development, or colic. For this
reason, we recommend parents wait until 4-6 months to complete the
child's first temperament questionnaire.
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