Are temperament traits "good" or "bad"?
On the temperament profile created by scoring the temperament
questionnaire, above average scores (to the right of center) are
likely to be associated with more issues that parents find
problematic. But high and low scores in each temperament area are
also associated with certain advantages. These advantages need
mentioning, simply because parents are more likely to be impressed
by the pitfalls.
For example:
- Artistic talents may arise out of the heightened
awareness of the more sensitive child.
- The active child may be able to channel that extra
energy into success in sports.
- Intense children are less likely to be ignored. (On
medical wards, they get more pain medication!)
- The child who adapts more slowly to novelty may hold
back, rather than rush into dangerous situations. Or
the child who adapts slowly to parents' expectations may
be less influenced by adolescent peer pressure.
- The child who is irregular in eating and sleeping
schedules may fit better into jobs where workers only
can eat and sleep as the work situation allows.
- Easily frustrated children may learn early how useful
other people can be, when obstacles or delays occur. So
they may be more motivated to be sociable, develop
stronger social skills.
- The child who is not particularly distractible... and
therefore hard to distract when upset or move on to a
different activity when "into something"... may have no
difficulty studying on the school bus, lunch cafeteria,
or on the noisy playground.
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